Re: Is this insane or is it me?
He sounds just like my ex. We were crazy in love, he adored me, spent his money on me, I alienated my friends and family to be with him. But he "didn't believe in" separate finances, so I had to give him my pay checks. I took his controlling as taking care of me, but it just got progressively worse, till he got tired of me. Btw, my money was being spent on other women.
You should RUN, this is not love, it's possession. And if he's checking up on you, suspicious, angry, be careful.