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post #1 of 8 (permalink) Old 03-14-2016, 06:00 PM Thread Starter
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Wife got upset I would pay hair stylist

So before we got married (mistake) my wife asked me to pay $200 for a hair cut n style n color. I said "you work, you pay".

She didn't like that


I think she lied about how much she made, she
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So before we got married (mistake)
I think you got bigger problems than haircuts....

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I think you got bigger problems than haircuts....
Yeah, I think so!!

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Hi, first post, realize it's not a good sign to be here but...

So I got married, I believe thru coercion. Now I'm ready to file for divorce and walk away.

Been married just over 5 months, things are ok at times but they can get to firework stage fast. I believe, due to my underlining resentment.

My GF at the time gave me an ultimatum, alluding to possibility of being pregnant, get engaged by end of August 2015 or if pregnant she would move back to northeast and never keep kid from contact.

Wanting to do the right thing, I folded, I asked her to marry me, she rushed a Sept wedding and bam done.

Two weeks later she looks pregnant. Belly, morning sickness but negative tests. Negative ultrasounds.

Three docs say not pregnant, neg blood tests, neg ultrasounds.

I really feel stupid and played.

Here we are 5 months later, still with belly and morning sickness.

Paperwork is filed everything is in the works.

She says you had been looking for love and marriage, what difference does it make how we got here. I love you.

Thoughts?

People don't get a free pass to cheat just because their marriage sucks.

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Re: Wife got upset I would pay hair stylist

I'm sorry...What? I'm confused.
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Re: Wife got upset I would pay hair stylist

I'm confused too, are you saying:

1. Your marriage was a mistake
2.She lied about how much money she makes
3. Mad because you would not treat your wife to a hair day

Why did you get married to this person? did she get pregnant or her true self came out after you were married?
Did you not discuss finances before you got married? or has she started a new job and is lying about how much she earns?
Why would you not want to do something nice for your wife and let her get her hair done or pay half?



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Re: Wife got upset I would pay hair stylist

Your wife needs to pay for her own hair styles. She isnt a kid.
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So before we got married (mistake) my wife asked me to pay $200 for a hair cut n style n color. I said "you work, you pay".

She didn't like that


I think she lied about how much she made, she
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Mrs.CuddleBug gets her haircut and colored every 3 months for about $120 CAD + taxes. Guess what? She pays for it herself.

Mrs.CuddleBug shaves my head at home and it costs $0.

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well as you are a couple you must pay dude
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