Thanks for reply! My contribution is all finances, i have generally been home by dinner and most weekends through med school, less in 3rd year, home more in 4th year. When home i do what anything that needs doing dinner, dishes, hang w kids, bath, bed etc... I manage finances, book keep, taxes etc... On weekends when home i stay home with kids so wife can work.
My wife though runs house day to day: kids up and to school, picks up, shops, takes them to activities (ballet, football). In the 6 hours they r in school she goes to work 3 days a week x 4 hrs, school 2 days x6 hours). When im not home in evening she does dinr baths bed etc... Thats basically our life.