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post #16 of 36 (permalink) Old 11-25-2016, 06:12 AM
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Pay off your credit card. And pay more than the minimum on your student loan. We need to get YOU out if debt.

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post #17 of 36 (permalink) Old 11-25-2016, 12:44 PM Thread Starter
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Update, he did pay thr bike payment I found. He is however not making paykents on his cc medical bill or bike insurance . ****. Is this grounds ti kick his butt out?
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Get the book "Smart Couples Finish Rich". Get him to read it. You read it too. Then restructure your finances that way.

Each of you get an equal share of anything left over AFTER all bills are paid.

You need to get his credit report on a regular basis to make sure that he does not get a credit card that he runs up. Often people who operate as he does will do just this. And you would be responsible for it as much as he is.

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Why is it so important for me to get out of debt, not him?
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