Re: Side-job money
What are her top needs in life? Do you meet them?
What are the things that bother her the most? Do you continue to do them?
You would know this stuff once you read His Needs Her Needs.
In it, you'll also learn that you can rarely stay in love with each other (which, of course, includes wanting the other person to be happy; i.e., letting the other person spend his own money or, conversely, wanting to spend that money on his spouse) unless you are spending at least 10 hours a week together with the electronics off, not doing chores, basically DATING. Not necessarily dates, more like having a cup of coffee together; doing a jigsaw puzzle together for a few minutes every few days; going for walks and just talking; going to a car show or a craft show...dating. Are you?