Re: Husband Financial Abuses
You're right. This is financial abuse. He's forcing you to sell your stuff to pay for his children's food and your own needs. That's disgusting. See a lawyer and use an average salary amount you can search online for his occupation and get a real child support and alimony estimate then lay it on the table for him. Show him how much he will be paying you once you file and tell him he either goes to counseling and opens the accounts to you so that you don't have to live poor while he spends away or you will file and get the money your kids deserve that way. This is his LAST chance and if he blows it, you need to get your ducks in a row and prepare to leave. It won't get better and it's extremely unfair to your kids for you to stay with a man who would rather buy expensive bike parts than feed and clothe them.