My husband refuses to get a job
I've been married for 2 years. I love my husband so much and we have a great relationship and marriage except for one huge thing: he will NOT get a job!!! He's basically been unemployed since we got out of college (7 years ago) with some periodic exceptions. I have traditionally insisted we keep our finances separate because of this, and he gets by with some support from a family member each year (basically inheritance which is about to run out). Meanwhile, I have been working since I was 16 - so I don't relate to him at all about this. Recently he's starting to ask me for money, but I don't make enough to support both of us and, frankly, refuse to pay for him since I know he will just start relying on my hard earned savings.
The thing is, I love him and want to stay with him, but I don't think he'll ever change. He says he wants to find work, but has a lackluster resume and can't find anything and has just gotten more depressed about the poor decisions he made in the past. From my perspective, though, he is barely even trying at all. I feel like I have said and done everything possible over the years to try to get him to change, but none of it has worked. Is there anything I can even do at this point?