Re: Separated from husband due to financial issues, when should i get back with him?
well, first you're going to have to be honest with yourself. If you know you cant leave him, then dont try and convince yourself that you can. you know you are going to get back with him. so i would say to come to some agreement with him that he will be employed for so long....but even that doesnt really matter to you. the bottom line is you will get back together with him as soon as you just cant stand being away from him any longer; it wont matter what he says or does, you'll go back to him. it has nothing to do with what he's doing. all that matters is you have an insatiable need for him- that is what will drive you to make all your decisions.
My advice to you would be not to fight it, but to try and learn to understand why you have this need for him. go to counseling, read some books on codependency, maybe even buy some literature from the alanon site, but learn more about yourself, what your needs are, and how to go about meeting those needs in a healthy way.
"I'm a lover of what is, not because I'm a spiritual person, but because it hurts when I argue with reality."
- Bryon Katie