Re: Why are there so many "banned" posters?
I was also TAM friends with a married woman that got inappropriate with me. It was like a one sided EA, only I knew what was going on and I kept my boundaries strong, but I let her talk me into believing she was just a friend.
It got to a certain level where I was uncomfortable talking with her and kept telling her to take it down a notch and stop being so sexual. I started getting mean with her too, which wasn't enough because she would push even harder.
Boy was I glad when her husband got so jealous he took her away from her computer. I think they tossed the idea of an open marriage around before they both decided they wanted to reconcile and keep their special brand of crazy contained within the relationship.
This is why with every female friend I get close to I have to have that uncomfortable "let's just stay friends" talk before anyone gets the wrong idea. The last thing I want is that awkward relationship online and long distance with someone I would probably never meet in person.