The first post you quoted is from December 2013 which is around the time I actually got banned and has nothing to do with these two posters.
Who gives a crap when you made those posts or who they're directed at?
2ntnuf's insults however are completely uncalled for. Just because I am debating with someone else it doesn't give him the right to post insults referring to genitalia in addition to making harsh jokes that my breast must have been mutilated and cut off and suggesting sex with another poster.
Your posts were uncalled for as well. That's why you got banned the first time.
It really comes to this:
Here you are complaining about other people's harsh posts when you're guilty of the same transgression.
You can't effectively defend yourself by saying "oh those posts were a month ago" or "they were directed to different people" or "they goaded me into saying it".
Nor can you use the old "they have no right to do that!"
Maybe they do, maybe they don't, it's not your call and it doesn't validate your own harsh posts.
You're the type to say to the cop "yes I was speeding but so was everyone else, therefore I shouldn't get a ticket". Or "The other looter broke the window, I entered the building after it was almost completely cleaned out and there was one TV left so I grabbed it and you should go arrest them and let me go".
Your logic is faulty, your argument is invalid, your posts are harsh, you have nothing.