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post #1 of 128 (permalink) Old 01-28-2014, 04:42 PM Thread Starter
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I've got several quite harsh replies from a couple of posters here and I'm wondering do these posts fall within forum guidelines, specifically the first rule:
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1. Treat others on the forum with dignity and respect.
Personal attacks, hate speech, racist or sexist statements or attacks, sexual harassment, explicit sexual comments, promoting violence, will not be tolerated.
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It seems you got left behind. I would be happy to retrace your steps for you.
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The sect is almost gone and it was in the former Soviet Union. Do you live near this sect? Have you experienced this probing? If so, do you need help? How can any of us help you?
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So, you were one of the women caught masturbating and had her breast cut off? Good Lord. I can't even imagine the pain you must have suffered. There is no way I can express my sorrow for you.

These folks should be dealt with in a manner in which they can never be allowed to form again.
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Hey, how's that masturbating problem coming? You find anyone yet?
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I thought you were a red head with one boob?
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She's touched it.
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She's still touching it. It takes longer.
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The way you tried to make the point didn't work. Deal with it. The actual point is good. Maybe if someone better gifted on how to write well made it or if you were more on your game, then it would have been a nice "ah-ha" moment...

Sorry, don't take it personal.

Enjoy.
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Cute again!
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Why don't you two just kiss already and have sex. Get it over with.

Novella, you don't look like Rick Astley, do you? That might be a deal-breaker.

Also, grow some testicles and present your argument. Don't be shy.
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You overrate your, "stalkability"
Could the moderators here give some insight on this? Especially the "jokes" about breast cancer/cutting off one breast are not funny at all.

Thank you.

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post #2 of 128 (permalink) Old 01-28-2014, 04:43 PM
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Re: Harsh posters

That's what the "report post" and "ignore" buttons are for...

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post #3 of 128 (permalink) Old 01-28-2014, 04:48 PM
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You can always PM a moderator directly or hit the small triangle at the bottom of each post for the Report Post option. I would. Some of those posts cross the line.
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Novella you may consider that I came her to pick on you (for the previous disagrements we had in another thread) but that is not the case, I want to try to peace the waters (if anything), yes the comments are kind of rude and innapropiate, but I went to read the whole conversations and it was not a one sided agression, you also repetedly called them fools or make comments about their intellect, just because you don't use profanities it does not mean that you are not insulting them.

I mean they have been here in the forum for years without incidents of that kind, and suddenly you come to the forum and they become bullies (you see where I am going, right?)

remember cordiality is a key to many doors.

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Well, this is the first time on a forum that I've been suggested to have/offer sex to a male poster to end a debate or that I have my one breast cut of because of masturbation or breast cancer.
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I've got several quite harsh replies from a couple of posters here and I'm wondering do these posts fall within forum guidelines
Perhaps you outta take a look at some of your own posts:

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You are delusional.
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Wow, you really aren't the sharpest tool in the shed are you?
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But reading is not your strong suit I suppose...
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If you weren't so slow you'd realize the comment..
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The only one failing here is you. You could at least try because you are making a fool of yourself.
When it comes to following guidelines, you seem to fall a bit short..

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I concur with Lenzi, you need to look at your own posts. I posted already that I don't think you'll last long here.
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Ku`ia ka hele a ka na`au ha`aha`a.

Interpretation: Hesitant walks the humble hearted.

Meaning: Those who are sensitive to others inspire respect and allegiance. Those who throw their weight around will hurt others, and eventually themselves, when enough people have been hurt.

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Perhaps you outta take a look at some of your own posts:

When it comes to following guidelines, you seem to fall a bit short..
The first post you quoted is from December 2013 which is around the time I actually got banned and has nothing to do with these two posters.

The next four quotes are direct replies to Interlocutor after him intentionally goading for a response long enough.

2ntnuf's insults however are completely uncalled for. Just because I am debating with someone else it doesn't give him the right to post insults referring to genitalia in addition to making harsh jokes that my breast must have been mutilated and cut off and suggesting sex with another poster.
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Ku`ia ka hele a ka na`au ha`aha`a.

Interpretation: Hesitant walks the humble hearted.

Meaning: Those who are sensitive to others inspire respect and allegiance. Those who throw their weight around will hurt others, and eventually themselves, when enough people have been hurt.
By the way, I love all of your Hawaiian sayings in all of the threads. So fun!

You guys are cracking me up.
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The next four quotes are direct replies to Interlocutor after him intentionally goading for a response long enough.
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So to summarise,

it's OK for you to take the mickey, but you don't like it back.

Stop trying to make out you're the victim
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By the way, I love all of your Hawaiian sayings in all of the threads. So fun!



You guys are cracking me up.

Times like these, you just have to bring a little Aloha to TAM
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Just get thicker skin. It's the internet, people behind a keyboard you will never meet. No one gets space rent free in my head. Also...there is a wonderful ignore feature available .
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