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Hi,
I am from Pune and DIL in traditional Maharashtrian family.
I got married before 25 years. I have 2 sons who are 20 and 18. I love my family.
I take tutions daily of school going students. We are 4 teachers.
Few days back one new young teacher has joined. He is young and smart.
I felt that i am geting attracted towards him . He is unmarried.
He stays near to our place. So we travel in same bus and he sits beside me. He is very talkative.
I started feeling something. I dont know what is this. I like to go out with him, sit with him in bus having lunch with him. And alos i dont understand what he is feeling about me.
Please help me.
Hi,
I tried my best to keep away from him. Kept relation with him. But maintained distance also. Now its hard time. Both of us are going for 20 days training. And we are going outside pune for that training. Suggest me necessary steps to be taken
If you know you want to stay faithful to your husband, keep your distance from this man. You and this man are going away for 20 days together for this training?
Don't keep yourself from the training you need to do.
Don't talk about personal topics with this guy, or be alone with him.
Keep in touch with your husband while you're away.
20 dyas are too much. Also as ia m away from house, i have freedom.
I will be wearing some dresses which i dont wear while at home. Also no family meber knows that i have such dresses with me.
Will it create a problem?
He is very talkative. Sometime i have done some chnges in me as per his suggestions.
Is it worthwhile to ruin your family and marriage for a man like this?
If you cherish your husband and marriage, and you want your life trouble free, you just need to think that this man is pursuing a lot of women. He is a womanizer, he is a playboy, he will only bring you pain rather than fun.
20 dyas are too much. Also as ia m away from house, i have freedom.
I will be wearing some dresses which i dont wear while at home. Also no family meber knows that i have such dresses with me.
Will it create a problem?
He is very talkative. Sometime i have done some chnges in me as per his suggestions.
I am from traditional family, As family tradition i wear only saree.
As i am going outside, first time i was planning to wear salwar and other dresses which i never wore before and no allowed in family.
Will it give some different messages to him?
Shoudl i go ahead. Also as we are friendly, i cant avoid him there.
Pl suggest.
I am from traditional family, As family tradition i wear only saree.
As i am going outside, first time i was planning to wear salwar and other dresses which i never wore before and no allowed in family.
Will it give some different messages to him?
Shoudl i go ahead. Also as we are friendly, i cant avoid him there.
Pl suggest.
Regards,
Shaila
Do you mean you are a middle eastern woman. Isn't it very strict there?
Shouldn't he respect you as a married woman?
I don't think it is inappropriate for you to wear other dresses if you are going to a meeting. Does the place you are going require certain clothes?
Need help! Serious problem 
