Ok all the advice above is solid and good stuff....But I am going to take it a bit further for you.
Ok so you are jealous over a lap dance? Don't be honey, I been to plenty of these parties, the guys CAN NOT touch the ladies, the ladies can only touch teh man, and trust me they only want his money and that is it. You would never have to worry about more then the dance becuase no man int heir right mind would want to go any further, hello STD city. Not happening.
Also usually in these parties it is more embarrassing for the guys, i've seen guys get completely embarrassed and that might have been your hubby, didn't want the lap dance, "pushed into it" he was uncomfortable while it happened, his friends made fun of him...seen it before.
I am not a "strip club" kind of person by my wife was curious to go to one with me so I took her, and she was like "this is it?" and I am like Yep, pretty much about it, she was like I could do a better job then these girls.....Light bulb went off in my head....Oh really honey???
So what came out of this? Well Carmen Electra has a DVD collection of "strip tease workouts" I bought it for my wife, the whole set, includes a "lap dance" workout
I gave it to her to "study" and we would ahve a "test" some night.
Well she studied and we put some songs on our IPOD that she found "fun" to dance to, we bought her a hot sexy dress....and one night when the kids were not home, We had a few drinks...and we set up a chair in our living room, dimmed the lights, And it was her "test time"....Needless to say she passed with flying colors
My wife has become my own personal stripper
She loved it, I loved it...it was a blast. We have several outfits for her now and she wants to buy a Brass pole for our basement (removable of course)
I recommend, you do such a thing..... Show your hubby that YOU are the Sexiest woman on the planet and he will Drool over you and I am telling you he will LOVE IT....and so will you.
Let the Vegas trip go I am sure nothing happened.....but you can make a world of a difference for him.
Have some fun! You will just see how much he really loves you the moment he realizes you are going to give him a personal lap dance.