01-10-2010, 11:00 AM
Join Date: Sep 2009
| | Re: When his anger gets in the way.....
Ah. my H and I were dual military there for a long time, I feel your pain on being a world apart and trying to make it work. It gets sticky.
The only thing I can suggest is to come at him completely calm and ask "I've noticed you are having a bad time, is there anything I can do to help?" If he says he is just stressed, missing you, etc reassure him that you miss him too, and then talk about what you BOTH need from each other so you aren't spending your only time together fighting. If this doesn't work, hopefully someone else has a better suggestion!