Well, if you know there are problems and they're your fault, maybe you should start with (1) fix whatever his complaints are, and (2) do more of whatever it is he likes.
The problem is we are in a rut. Same thing day in and day out.
It is my fault because, as a mother, I have to have a routine in place.
#1 - He has no complaints.
I do everything for him.
I work full time. I do all of the housework. I take care of the kids.
His dinner is waiting on him when he comes in after work. Our sex life is good.
The only thing he does around the house is mow the yard.
What's left that would he complain about?
#2 - See #1
I was just asking for opinions on what would make me a better wife. Not that I am a bad wife. I have just become a little boring.
The kids are getting older and I find that maybe if I would do something a little different, it might shake things up a bit.
Like if a man could put together the perfect wife, what would she do or how would she act? That kind of thing.
Because when I ask my hubby, all he says is that he is happy with me. So see, not very helpful.
Sorry if my question required too much thought from you.