01-25-2010, 07:50 PM
Join Date: Sep 2009
| | Re: thoughts
I got that last fall, because my H was sooo guilty about his affair that I didn't know about yet. So he thought he would just divorce me and then he would never have to face up to what he did. Of course when he told me that I said okay, I'll leave. The result ended up being us staying together and going to counseling. Where he STILL didn't tell me about his A.
We are in love with each other, I think he just had so much guilt that this one sentence he thought would be his easy way out. And when the therapist pointed out to him how selfish and distant he was, something clicked. I don't know what, but it clicked.