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I need some advice on this one it is causing problem between my husband and me.
I will try to make this short, in Sept. his Mom called me one day and told me to start look for a house for around 80,000 that they had decided to buy us a house with my husbands money he would get if something happen to them, I did as I was told to but my husband would not even go look at any houses with me, so, the house we a in now came up for sell and the owners told us we could but it for less then what they wanted for it so I called his parent and let them know and they wanted to talk to the owner of the house and they did and told them they would buy the hous if they would send them the info. thay wanted which they did. We went over to his parents house for his Moms birthday and his dad out of the blue asked me, my husband and son and son girlfriend how much mony we though they had spent on us over nine years like on gifts and so on, I was not to happy about that but did not say anything and he said the amount and he had the receipt to proof it:
then Iam at work one day when his Dad call and told me that they have to post pone the the the owner whated to try to close by,due to when they could get the money out I said that should be ok and they needed to call the owner, then he asked me if i thought that i was a smart person I did not know what to say and he went on to say he tought that I was smarter then his son so why do I aguer with him, and I told him he did not know his son very well and that he had problems geting along with people and his Dad told me I needed to change that my Doctor had to have told me that I needed to lose weight I told him that it was not his business but that I had health problems and hang up one him. He also bouhgt up again what he had spent on us and dates.Then his Mom call me and told me that she was sorry but that his Dad had sugar problem and did know what he had done.