Re: Is internet "flirting" cheating?
I may be a little biased as my H's cheating started online before it got physical. I would assume your not an idiot, and trust me when I say womens intuition is a remarkable thing. I knew there was something wrong with my marriage and my H endless "computer time", and although I did, several times, try to stop it. I didn't know how. It had already consumed him. The nasty ho that he slept with him, used his depression to prop him up and "make him feel good about himself". No matter how hard I tried to connect with him. I was unable. He gave her so much more time than he was giving me or our children.
If you suspect your H's online chats are a problem. Put a BIG stop to it. It may be innocent for now, but they so easily get lost in the fantasy, of what they believe it will be like.
As for your situation, I am just a little tired of men saying woman don't meet their needs, what about your needs. The last thing you need is stress. Your on bed rest carrying HIS baby. What the hell is that? Swap places with ya buddy!
Take care of you, you don't need the extra stress!