Found a Condom in Husbands Boot
About three years ago I was cleaning my husbands closet out and picked up an old pair of work boots that he kept in the back for a back-up pair and a condom fell out. When I asked him about it he said it was from a trip he'd taken to NY to watch a football game with his friends and he must have forgotten to throw it away. That trip was a year or so before and when he came home and I was doing his dirty laundry a condom fell out of his hoody. He said that the guys had bought a box as a joke to tease on guy in particular. That they put them on his doorknob, shaving cream, etc. My husband said that since it was his idea that the guy the pranked decided to get him back by putting several in my husband's suitcase. He said he thought he'd found them all and trashed them before he got home.
I thought his football prank story sounded more like what middle schoolers would do than guys in their late 30's and early 40's. I decided to let it go at that. I also decided to let the story about the condom in the boot go since it had been so long and I couldn't remember if he'd taken that pair with him or not or if it was even the same type of condom's.
We have been together for 18 years (married for 16) and we have never used condoms. That is until recently. About four months ago while we were in the middle of being intimate he stopped and said "wait I've got a condom in the truck, let me go get it". I flipped!!!!
I asked him what the heck he had one in his truck for and the man actually stammered. He finally said for us to use. I sat there in awe as he returned with one ordinary condom. Not a pack and nothing "special" (in it was intended to spice things up). I asked him where the rest of the pack was and he said there was only one. Needless to say the next day I was compelled to look in the truck. I found a pack of condoms tucked in behind the some other items in the door.
It took me a couple of weeks to get my nerve up and to find the right time to ask him about this. When I did he said I was crazy, that there was only the one. Shortly after that he came home with like a box of 40 and has insisted on us using one every time since.
He knows where I'm at every second of the day so he can't be thinking that I'm cheating and he's being safe. Does this behavior absolutely mean that he is cheating?