02-13-2010, 07:14 PM
Join Date: Jan 2010
| | sexless marriage...
So as we work through the issues we had with the other man on facebook asking for the nude pics ive been trying to find answers to why. I know everything happens for a reason, it has a cause and effect. I asked my wife what about our marriage led this to happen so i can change it. She repeatedly says she doesnt know why it happened. Lie or not there has to be something amiss. Our sex life has been borderline at best, maybe once a month, nothing spectacular just the same deal everytime. I found one of those famous quizzes, got her to take it with me.
Sex is asleep and needs a wake-up call. You and your partner are still having sex, but it is often superficial and perfunctory. Now is the time to bring your sex vibrantly alive. If things stay as they are, you might continue to have sex-ó but you may not care. Rather than buying new lingerie or watching sex films together, try changing your typical sexual routine by revealing a previously hidden sexual side of yourself. Do something that takes some courage and earns your own respect. Amaze yourself, and you could end up with amazing sex!
Sex is comatose and in danger of dying. Sex and intimacy in your relationship are still alive, but just barely. You need to take action before they die altogether. The upside is that sex can often be better than ever. As you get older, you and your partner are capable to deeper intimacy and more erotic sex. Eye-gazing in bed are one way to put this into gear. You and your partner probably arenít real relaxed when you have sex.
Its almost nice to see both ended up the same so shes not delusional thinking its great, but at the same time its depressing because i know it could be so much more. Where the hell do we even begin to turn this ship?