Becca

I want to get couseling. I have brought it up to him and he blows it off. But I am so frustrated. I think we need to work this out before it gets any worse and we lose each other. We aren't even married yet! I try to talk to him and he gets annoyed with me. I feel like he is always annoyed with me. When ever I ask him to help out he says I didn't ask right or if I had asked earlier or it is his day off. I thought this was a partnership. But I don't feel connected to him in any way except for our baby boy. I know he feels loved through the physical, but by the time where there is time I am either angry with him or just plain tired. How can I get him to agree to go to counseling? I don't ant this to spiral to where I feel it is going.

draconis

What have you done to get him to talk?

What has his responce been like?

How good do the two of you communicate and how do you communicate?

draconis

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beachmama26

Go without him.. maybe if he see that you are going ,and that you r serious he will follow .. If he does not sooner or later .. Then you know how he values the relationship..