02-25-2010, 10:14 AM
Join Date: Feb 2010
| | Re: Should husband still be talking to ex-girlfriend
It's one thing to run into an ex and have a civil conversation, but I'd be suspicious of frequent calls.
My husband has had conversations with the woman he dated prior to our relationship throughout our 25 years of marriage. Sometimes there were years between calls. She also still keeps in touch with members of my husbands immediate family. While I never felt threatened or jealous of her, I recently found out that my husband met with her and her husband while on a trip out of town, and again after her husband passed away. The second visit resulted in and affair. I never saw it coming, and had he not told me I never would have known. Fortunately we're fighters and have turned this major upset into a possitive that has made our relationship much stronger. All I can say is honesty and communication is the base for a great marriage. If you always are truthful and up front with everything you don't have to worry about covering your tracks.