03-01-2010, 02:41 PM
Join Date: May 2008
| | Re: "ratting out" a cheater - what would you do?
That's what I was banking on.
Follow your gut. Just be aware of your bias. You could save this woman a lot of heartache - or be the cause of it.
Originally Posted by 1968
Someone asked if I had been cheated on and the answer to that is yes... I was the unsuspecting victim of an office affair.... it is incredibly embarassing to me still to think that I went to office parties and was the laughing stock while everyone knew my spouse was getting it on with a coworker. I am sure this is why this is such an issue for me.
As for what I know, its true - i have never seen them in bed together, but come on, there are PLENTY of dots to connect - I even saw them playing "footsie" once when I walked into a meeting late. There are many more instances that validates my suspiscion...
I realize it is not my place to judge - I am just thinking back to my own situation and I know I would like to have been told....