I have been married 5 years now on Saint Patrick's Day 2010, and I am still having communication issues in my marriage. My husband was in a relationship for someone for nearly 7 years before we met, and she cheated on him constantly. I have only had this one relationship, so I have not had these experiances. We have been together for a total of 8 years now, and we have a 2 year old little girl.
I have come to the relization that my husband has an "I dont care if you stay or go" attitude toward me. I am a very lieniant wife and hardly say no to him in any circumstance but a few instances have made me uncomfortable.
First, I was trying to connect my husbands blackberry phone to our laptop to go online and I saw that there was an email from fling.com. I had brought this up to him, and he stated that he did not sign up for this. Even though I tend to suffer in silence, I did cry about this. I felt betrayed and like he was looking for something better. Then another pulled up a few days later for amaturedate.com. I started to wonder. This one stated to activate your account please click here...
My husband just learned how to use his phone and a computer so he is not tech savy. This made me feel a little better. Then when I was texting him from work, he wouldnt text back or answer my calls. I noticed when I got home that instead of talking to me, he and my sister N law were having a full conversation. That following day he started asking me questions about where she was and who she had gone with.
I am not a jealous person, but I am miserable. I dont know how to fix this, or if it is me. I just want to cry all the time. HELP!