05-07-2008, 10:10 AM
Join Date: May 2008
Location: Arizona, USA
| | Re: Save me pls.
I have 4 children too, I have no time to talk to many people on the phone on either side of the family and as for planning to buy a peice of land, saving, or my husband's job - I leave up to my husband. He does most of that research. I do most of the research on things that involve our children, their schooling, their after school activities, our spiritual life. Scolding wouldn't make me want to get involved in the relationship, that wouldn't help me become a better person in my husband's eyes. I would have to say that you need to listen to your wife and see what she is saying about all this. I hear your side of the story on what you feel, I'd like to hear hers to see what is going on. Obviously, you two are not bonding as a couple with what is going on between you when it comes to daily living. If I were her I would feel pretty belittled by alot of your comments and it would be hard for me to want to be close to you or your family. I don't think you need to get a divorce, maybe talking to someone can help both of you work through the tough times. Just a a thought. What positive books have your read?
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