Re: Don't know what to do
Martino,
I think your not really over your head, however, I can give some advice. Do some little things for her. Tell her at least 3x a day that you love her. Also let her know how important she is to you and your son. You have to make her feel like she is appreciated, and most importantly, you have to break the mold. Instead of shying away from her, put more into the relationship. She will notice. I think that your heading down a road that you may not want to go down if you leave her, as she is important to you, otherwise you wouldn't be here asking for advice.
Buy her a gift, and put some thought into it. Maybe make her something handmade. Mail her a love letter. Send her a dozen roses while she is at work. Ask her girlfriend, the close one from childhood, what one of the gifts she would always like to see from you is, especially since she may know.
You sound like you need someone to talk to. And I wish you good luck.
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Hi, my name is Russ, and I'm a recovering alcoholic.
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