04-10-2010, 07:09 AM
Join Date: Apr 2010
| | 22 years old marriage needs help
I was 29 and she was 24 when we married 22 years ago. We are both highly educated and have a very comfortable upper middle class life. We are still both looking fit and have an active social life shared with many good friends. She retired herself 3 years ago and devoted all her life to our son, our dog, other dogs, cats, her family and her friends . I feel like I mean to her the money bringing person. My son loves me very much, we are like brothers, shares a lot with me.
She has not been willing to sleep in our bedroom with the excuse that she likes to go to sleep while watching tv for about 4 years. We havenít had sex may be for more than 2 years. She is not a person to sit and talk about the problems I/we have. She is closed to such communication. She acts as if she wonít care even if I have a relation with someone else.
For the sake of our sonís psychology I suffered this for many years but now exhausted indeed to play this role. Any ideas to turn on this marriage/her ..