Re: Wife betrayed my trust in her?
If one of the partner is sick, the other partner feels it. I think she cares about you. She is worried. That's why she told her family. She wants to share her pain, concern with them too, since they are part of her family. Don't forget this! She considers you part of her family, and you are..
A friend of mine told me something about her husband. He has a medical issue that is going to change his and his family's life forever..
He told her not to tell anybody, but she was really worried about him. She told me, while she was crying. She needed to talk with somebody, and she doesn't have nobody here. No other family, beside her husband and her kids. She didn't know what to do, and sometimes sharing your feelings with your family, or somebody close to you helps you.
I share with my parents, and my in laws everything when it comes to health issues. They do the same thing. It's hard to keep a secret, especially when is about a concern that affects you, or somebody that you love. I hate secrets.