04-19-2010, 06:00 PM
Join Date: Jun 2009
| | Re: Wife and kids are gone...HELP
I'm sorry that you're going through this. Whatever you do, Do. Not. Push. Her. Regardless of what she has or hasnít done, what signs she does or doesnít give you, pushing her to stay in this marriage will not help you. Itís the natural instinct but all it will do is wind up pushing her further away. I really only have a couple other pieces of advice for you. 1st, it is not okay for a married individual to stay out until dawn, repeatedly, without so much as a word to their spouse of their whereabouts. No way no how, you are in the right there. 2, I agree with the above poster, arrange it so that you can see your kids regularly, you are entitled to this. 3, Use this alone time to really look at yourself. Evaluate who you are, who youíve become and any role you might have had in your marriage taking a turn for the worse. Definitely look into counseling for the both of you together and individually. Best of luck.