04-26-2010, 10:31 PM
Join Date: Apr 2010
Location: New Braunfels, Tx
| | Re: topless dancing
Stupid question mars, but have you asked him if he'd like you to dance for him? If that is his "thing" its something you could easily do for him that would probably make him pretty happy. Act like that dancer, don't let him get the "goods" easily, make him really want it and about ready to explode. Many people have "fetishes" that they would like their spouses to fulfill. Some, I can see causing issues with the spouse. But, stripping is harmless enough. I don't know of any guy that doesn't get really turned on by his wife dancing.
That being said, I think it's not the best thing for a husband to do; going out to a strip club. While I don't believe it's cheating, I do believe it's a bad decision. I would not yell and complain at him, but let him know calmly how you really feel. And, if your up to it, do some dancing for him, you may be surprised at the results!