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I am at the start of a rather ugly divorce. What I find unusual is the fact that my STBX refuses to speak or even write my name when we talk or correspond in e-mail. This has been going on for about 7 weeks now without fail.

Is this emotionally significant? Some sort of clever legal ploy I should emulate? A sign of brooding psychopathic rage. I honstly just don't know. I haven't spoken with anyone that has encountered this. I have gone out of my way to be pleasant with her in all of my contacts. What gives with this? Any ideas? Has anyone else ever experienced this after the eight grade?

I am a little unnerved here as she is more than a tad unstable. Oddly enough, I can remember her clearly telling me years ago that the Dr. that operated on her ankle was killed by his own wife in a fit of jealous rage. In my defense, I have never cheated on her. However, I also have never abused her, and yet I have a restraining order against me. I took a facebook quiz tonight. Might this be an omen?

How Will You Die?

Result: Murder
You will die by being stabbed by someone you thought was your soulmate...turns out not. Your body will be never seen by another living person and your death remains a mystery to police.

As she has a restraining order against me I currently cannot carry a weapon, but I am stupidly killed in hand to hand combat. However, a snub nosed 38 and a little surprise is a great equalizer for many years of dedicated martial arts training.

I probably just need more sleep, but my gut tells me there is a disturbance in the force.

LIL

Atholk

In Connecticut either party filing for divorce gets an automatic RO against both parties per State Law.

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nice777guy

I wouldn't read too much into FB quizzes. And it sounds like she's just playing a stupid childish game with your name.

Can you file your own restraining order? Has she made ANY threats?

WantsHappiness

These guys know your situation much better than I do but from what I’ve read quickly she is dealing with severe depression, yes? There is no logic to the decisions made by someone who is suffering from a mental illness (clarification - no logic you will understand). You will likely not be able to pinpoint a reasonable explanation for this.

But… maybe she’s doing it just to bug you. If she is, it looks like she succeeded