05-01-2010, 02:58 PM
Join Date: May 2010
Location: Tennessee, USA
| | Re: My wife has no sexual desire
This I guess is a very frequent problem considering how many posts I've seen about it.
Try not to push. If she says she isn't in the mood then don't continue acting like you want sex. I know when I don't want it and I do it just to make my husband happy, after a while i start to get resentful towards him bc it feels like its all about his needs and not mine, go a little while without asking for any or hinting at any sex. If a month is a normal span for her not to have sex then dont bug her for a month. If a week is a normal span then dont bug her for a week. She will appreciate that you are trying to back off her a little bit.
If backing off doesn't work then maybe its more of an aging thing, libidos tend to get lower and lower with age. How long between each time is it normally? if its just a few weeks or a month I wouldnt worry. If it goes months without her wanting any then maybe you should talk to her, tell her you have needs and that you would never want to push her but see if maybe she would like to go to counseling or a doctor so that you to can spice it up like the older days. Try to say it in a way that isn't blaming her for not having a high libido. Putting someone on the spot, especially a woman, just makes them not want to comply even further.