05-06-2010, 06:28 AM
Join Date: Mar 2009
| | Long Distance Relationship
Ok---I live in Pennsylvania, he lives in Nashville. We met on the internet, craigslist, to be honest. Don't form an opinion because of that, you never know until you try. Here's the issue---we've been 'together' since Oct 09. I went to meet him in Nov.09, and we totally fell in love. I am an aspiring singer, and so is he. I have 2 kids, he has 2 grown that he doesnt see. I am divorced, staying with a friend who is male, and he(nash) is very understanding about my situation, knowing I had nowhere else to go. I had been living with my friend 6 mos. before we met. OK--so we have been making our way to each other the entire time, we plan to get married, and I'm moving to Nash to be with him, pursue music together, etc...He has rented us a home, with my girls in mind, he worked so hard to do everything on his own, and I'm so proud of him for that...He just came up to see me 2 weeks ago, and it was fantastic. We had our time and time with my girls, and they just love each other! We had planned to be moving this Saturday, he was coming for us. HOWEVER--every few weeks or so, he has a major setback-if he can't reach me by phone, he goes nuts. I don't work and haven't for the entire relationship, so I've always been available to talk--all day, every day--(he can talk while he works) I devote all my time to him, even when my kids are around. He has accused me of doing things I haven't done (cheating). I don't have a social life AT ALL, don't even go anywhere without my kids. I know the distance is rough. Last nite something 'set him off'-guess because I didnt call him for a bit, he knows my daughter just had oral surgery on Mon. and needs me rite now...but, he had been upset about a conversation we had earlier, now he says its over??...The more I write, the more childish it all sounds,,and crazy....theres so much more to say...if you only knew...I don't even understand what I said to upset him...it was something about my past...I don't want to lose him. I swear he's bipolar, he has extreme lows for no reason, and when he's feeling high, its great......help..this is sooo nuts.......
Last edited by McGraw; 05-06-2010 at 07:41 AM.