We've been dating for the past 3 years and 2 months. My boyfriend has been around the house doing chores, running errands, he's just always been around. We're both in our mid 20's.
About a four months into our relationship, we found out I was pregnant. 8 weeks and 6 days after, due to stress I've had a miscarriage. My boyfriend asked me to marry him and since then everything change. He was always there for me. He did all my work around the house and helped out at my work too. My parents didn't have a problem with him until one day my boyfriend was fed up with having to do all the work around the house while my brother nor sister do anything he frowned a little bit while he was helping out. My mother then thought to herself my boyfriend has a real problem, for showing a slight bit of anger on his face for doing the chore, she began to dislike him.
Last summer, I went to away for about two months to visit relatives. Some retard came to my website and left a comment on my visitor log calling me his "baby". I wasn't aware of this until he mentioned it to me. Then he started accusing me of cheating on him. Then things got worse at home. He got angry and raised his voice a bit and drove off. My mother thinks he has anger issues and that he's violent. She swears he'd hit me in the future. Never in his life has he laid a finger on anyone. Everybody knows that but my mother. Then my brother came into the picture and started talking ****.
For about a year we were seeing each other without others knowing. I highly doubt that my family wasn't aware of that. But my boyfriend thinks this whole family issue is stressing me out and that it's hurting me. He doesn't ever think he'll get their approval. He wants to break the engagement off and I haven't spoken to him for a couple days. What can I do? I'm hurting and I know for a fact that he's hurting. He doesn't want to be the one to break the family tie. I honestly don't think it's that simple to get them to like him but I believe that they won't live my life for me. I am the one living my life. He wants to let me go because he thinks I'm hurting and he's holding me back.
What can I do?
About a four months into our relationship, we found out I was pregnant. 8 weeks and 6 days after, due to stress I've had a miscarriage. My boyfriend asked me to marry him and since then everything change. He was always there for me. He did all my work around the house and helped out at my work too. My parents didn't have a problem with him until one day my boyfriend was fed up with having to do all the work around the house while my brother nor sister do anything he frowned a little bit while he was helping out. My mother then thought to herself my boyfriend has a real problem, for showing a slight bit of anger on his face for doing the chore, she began to dislike him.
Last summer, I went to away for about two months to visit relatives. Some retard came to my website and left a comment on my visitor log calling me his "baby". I wasn't aware of this until he mentioned it to me. Then he started accusing me of cheating on him. Then things got worse at home. He got angry and raised his voice a bit and drove off. My mother thinks he has anger issues and that he's violent. She swears he'd hit me in the future. Never in his life has he laid a finger on anyone. Everybody knows that but my mother. Then my brother came into the picture and started talking ****.
For about a year we were seeing each other without others knowing. I highly doubt that my family wasn't aware of that. But my boyfriend thinks this whole family issue is stressing me out and that it's hurting me. He doesn't ever think he'll get their approval. He wants to break the engagement off and I haven't spoken to him for a couple days. What can I do? I'm hurting and I know for a fact that he's hurting. He doesn't want to be the one to break the family tie. I honestly don't think it's that simple to get them to like him but I believe that they won't live my life for me. I am the one living my life. He wants to let me go because he thinks I'm hurting and he's holding me back.
What can I do?