05-14-2010, 08:45 PM
Join Date: Apr 2010
| | Re: Help! I am completely confused.
If I answer you, cookw06, will you answer me something? Tell me how you turned your wife's complaint into being all about you? Not enough sex for you.....you don't know if you can live like this.....you are considering separation.....and so on. I'm genuinely curious.
Anyway, she told you what she wants, but you say you don't know what to do, so here you go. Romance doesn't have to cost a lot of money. Run her a bubble bath with candles. Rub her feet. Wash the dishes. Clean the bathroom. Brush her hair. Message her back. Cook her dinner. Send her flowers. Put a hand-written love note in the refrigerator. Write a post it and stick in her checkbook or on her drivers license. Make the bed in the morning. Read a romance novel to her at night. There are hundreds of things you can do. Just get creative. And, this movie will help tremendously to rekindle the romance, put the spark back, and make her feel loved and appreciated. Rent it. Watch it. Follow the principles. She doesn't want the attention she receives from you to be about you trying to get sex. She's beginning to resent you for that. Resentment kills a woman's libido. What she needs is for you to make love to her before you make love to her. You might even start dating her. Remember the things you did when you were wooing her?
"its only natural that some of that daily passion faded away."
That may be, but don't let it stop you.