soda

I don't know if it's a savior complex, but the similarities in both circumstances are somewhat ironic.

I am very tired of wanting the marriage more than she does. If she wants to throw her marriage away over a relationship that has no future, I'm inclined to let her. My initial reaction was to doubt myself, beat myself up, and consider myself lower than her friend, but I've come to the realization that I am better than that.

draconis

Yes soda you are better then that. She needs to realize that family comes first, and that you can continue the relationship by yourself.

I wish you the best of luck, I know that divorce can be as or more painful and I will keep you in my prayers.

draconis

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GAsoccerman

Soda, I really think you are going over board here, Please try and get to know the guy. I am sure his wife is curious about your wife as well.

Please really think this through, getting a divorce is the last thing you want to do here.

People can be friends