11-21-2013, 07:28 PM
Join Date: Sep 2013
| | Re: How important is attraction?
Originally Posted by whattodoskidoo
I know she didnt push him to drink I'm just wondering how important the attraction point is. If she loves him but isn't that attracted to him, does it stand a chance of working?
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No. Please tell her no. The kids have already been through one divorce. They don't need their lives confused further. Even setting that issue aside, I can tell you that it's simply unfair to both herself and to him. She won't be happy and he will eventually see that and it will fall apart. Being attracted to him, wanting to be with him, loving him like a lover,... those things are very important and should not be overlooked or sacrificed. I'm speaking from the voice of experience. This is a definite no.