thebia

Ok so i just found out my husband has been paying $70/month on two separate porn memberships. we dont live together we just see each other every weekend, but this bothers me. i asked him if he watched porn or bought any and he said no. but i know FOR A FACT. we are going through a week separation right now cause he said he needed space. But i KNOW theres no other woman, we just fight alot. Is it ok for a man who is married to buy porn memberships? What do I need to do? I was wondering why his libido was lacking. he used to send me dirty texts/pics all the time to keep up the spice during the week. im just shocked its like cheating to me.

FOM

thebia, are you OK with him having porn memberships and pleasuring himself to the point of having nothing left for you? I know by reading your post that it upsets you deeply, so yes, if something he is doing is destroying your relationship, he shouldn't be doing it. Why have the 2 of you not been living together all the time? That would probably curtail his porn habit.

Blanca

porn in my relationship didnt go over very well, either. but i do wonder if you two were living together if things might not be different.

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thebia

well im in school in another state while he is stationed in another state with the military. i move in a few weeks