Re: What is it about your spouse...?
"Sometimes I notice we tend to focus on what irritates us with our spouse. I thought it would be a nice change for each of us to come up with 6 things our spouse does that makes us happy."
This line really touched my heart.. I am married for 3 yrs with 2 kids already (2 y/o and a 6 month old baby) as early as this stage, me and my husband are going through a lotof difficulty, financially and emotionally..I always thought that he is god's gift to me, i considered myself lucky to be his girl then and his wife now..but its becoming a nightmare..he always sees the bad in me, points out all the negative side of me and rarely appreciates me. If only he can come up with as what you said, 6 things that i do that will make him happy, that will really be great..makesme think that hemay not be happy with me anymore.. i'm even suspicious that he's having an affair..he keeps his phone, puts it in his pocket when he sleeps and when i make a move at night, he rejects me and says he's tired. but whenhe's the one asking for it, i never turn him down..he has become sexually adventorous recently--if he feelslike it, he wants to have anal sex..i consented once but i hatedit! the next time, he wants to do it again and i declined..he became angry, even if i agreed to do it because ilove him, hegot angrierstill..i dont understand him anymore..ilove him so much but i fell like he doesn.t respect me at all.. i dont know him anymore..i'm really confused..