Re: Wife not attracted to me. I am going crazy!
Here's the problem: It's never going to change. It never did for my me, never did for any of the hundreds of husbands on this site complaining of the same thing, and I'm afraid it never will for you.
Your wife lied to you and now you are stuck for the rest of your life without someone who wants to hold you, kiss you, be intimate with you, to love you. I'm going to get reamed for this, but you need to find that affection elsewhere. Stay married to the person that loves you like a sibling, but find someone who desires you elsewhere. Before it's too late. Before your old and bitter instead of just bitter.
You only get ONE shot at life, and you were cheated out of a big part of it. Forever.