angellsmom

I dont even know where to begin, my husband and I have been married for four years now. I feel as though he has lost ALL interest in me. Sexual and anything else. I am at my wits end here and I dont know what to do about it. I talk to him but I feel as though he never listens to me. I think he has feelings for his ex and I think that he already has cheated on me. He makes me soo mad and I dont know what to do about it. What do I do? He wont talk to me about anything!!!!

draconis

Does he have children with his ex and does he have children with you?

draconis

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Chopblock

First of all, do you have any REAL PROOF that he has cheated? If you are hanging him or a crime he didn't commit, he's going to pick up on that.

Second: is there any possible reason (put yourself in HIS shoes) that he might have lost interest in you? Have you fought a lot, is there a need of his that isn't being addressed, have you changed appearance... anything at all? This isn't me accusing you, its me trying to pinpoint a catalyst for change.

You constantly say he makes you mad, and BELIEVE ME I know how frustrating it is to be unwanted sexually (gf recently put me through an 8 month drought cuz she had self-esteem issues). But what else is making you mad? Is he attentive in other ways or is he just absolutely nasty to you.