Re: Advise thinking about my ex husband
I don't want to tell you what to do. I can only give you my story. I never have posted on this board, but ran across it online. I divorced my husband 3 yrs ago. I re-married fast (not out of love at all - long story). It was the worst mistake of my life! All I thought about was my ex. I grew up with him & he knew me better than anyone. The new man that I was with always talked about his 1st wife & what all they shared - he missed her a lot. Lo & behold, a year later, he told me leaving his wife & re-marrying me was the worst mistake of his life. We both parted, because we both couldn't get past the love in our hearts for our 1st spouses. There is a connection there that can't be touched. I constantly was having dreams about the true love of my life - my 1st. We got back in contact. We re-married each other & it's better than ever today! You truly don't know what you have until it's gone. I have so much appreciation for my husband & I cherish him, daily. He was my ex for a reason - stupidity!! I am picking up the broken vows that were spoken years ago & standing by that I vowed to God to be his wife for the rest of our lives - not until I felt like I no longer wanted to! So the broken pieces have been mended & I am guarding it! We both have learned from our mistakes. My only regret is that it took a lot of pain & detours to get where we are at today, but it is worth it in the end!
Whatever you decide - I hope it brings you happiness!