08-25-2010, 01:57 AM
Join Date: Aug 2010
| | Re: Emotional affair
thank you very much for your response, that was very refreshing haha.
I have been getting alot of criticism as you can imagine from all sides. Mostly aimed at " he is obviously an ******* for doing this." I really and truly don't see it that way at all. Feelings developed between us as naturally as they would between single people. Through long talks and friendly comvo. I think the attraction grew because of it, not the other way around. While I am very realistic about the fact that this very well may not go anywhere because as you mentioned of your now husband, he is looking to settle down. And his now fiance is there. maybe it will not find it in himself to entertain the possibility that he may have developed feelings for another person.
I was feeling very upset about this the other night but realized that I can only continue to be myself and be the best person i can be and see what happens. Contrary to what everyone thinks of us ( and thats that we are having secretive deceitful sex behind closed doors ) we have merely been having long comvos, not being able to take our eyes off eachother that kind of thing. I'm not saying its right but I am feeling care more than anything coming from him.
we'll see I guess.