09-02-2010, 07:56 AM
Join Date: Nov 2009
| | Re: What does a healthy marriage lool like?
My parents divorced, My Mother never found love again & doesn't believe in it for herself, and my husband's parents stayed together even though they really didn't "like" each other too much - He enjoyed his friends more , was never home , while she was too much into her children, so our examples were warped.
Our marraige is nothing like either, we made our own way.
Just my personal opionion of coarse, but to helps to marry someone with similar "Love Languages" , possibly opposite temperments -so each compliments the other /ones strengths are the others weaknesses & vice versa, you share the same GOALS in life, enjoy each others personality, have similar interests, feel the same about intimacy, affection & sex as much as possible & gotta have "attraction" & maintain it as best you can as you age.
This would be my quick receipe for a general successful marraige.