Re: Healthy Boundaries on Support Forums
Well, I'd like to trouble the water a bit. I joined the forum because I need to talk about some things (sex) that I can't talk about with my husband. Some of this needs to be a bit detailed so that I can solve some problems.
If I asked myself how he would feel about it - I think he would be horrified. First of all, he is a private person and not the sort who would yak on line. Knowing this makes me quite uncomfortable. However, I don't feel like I've got a lot of options. We went to see a counselor and it was a disaster. I think we were too nice and the counselor couldn't find much wrong with us. Anyways, neither he nor I are interested in trying that again soon. However, the problems remain. I find the forum here very helpful - in the sea of pornography out there, this is actually a conversation about emotions, love, relationship and sex, all together. But I am worried about privacy, and I am transgressing a boundary. I hope it is for a good cause.
Last edited by Jadegreen; 07-31-2011 at 02:38 AM.