09-07-2010, 01:17 AM
Join Date: Jul 2008
| | Re: Do you love your spouse more when he/she is around?
i love my H more when he is around. Occasionally i'll really miss him if im having a bad day, but usually if he's not around i dont feel it as much.
i think you love your guy more when he's not around because you love the idea of him. when he is around you're confronted with the reality of your situation. naturally that pisses you off. all anger is just pain though. you're really hurt.
"I'm a lover of what is, not because I'm a spiritual person, but because it hurts when I argue with reality."
- Bryon Katie