trying2cope

I am really at a loss at this point. My husband left me 3 1/2 months ago. I talked him into moving back in last week. He brought a couple of outfits with him and slept in the guest room. He was barely here all week, and then last night he said that he was going to stay at his parents house (he needed to clear his head). He really can't open up his heart to the possibility that our marriage can work...that things can change. I do believe with all my heart that things can change and we can grow to love, trust and support one another. I just know that it's going to be a long road. He wants to continue living at his parents', date and spend time together as a family. What do I do? I want to move on with my life. I am becoming resentful and I am starting to not want him back. How do I move on knowing that there is still the smallest of possibilities that he will come back? It's not fair to me, our son or anyone I become involved with in the future.

The question is, do I do it his way and try to fight my resentment or do I give up completely and move on?

draconis

Atleast try it his way first then you know that you tried.

draconis

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Amplexor

Give it all the effort you can. If he is still willing to date and spend time with you as a family go with that for now. Growing in resentment is a way of you trying to protect yourself and is natural. These things can take a long time to get resolved one way or the other. Please refer to my post When is enough, enough. Good luck.

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Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.

Triton

Give it alot of time-without pressure. Take it slow.