Re: My husband thinks im cheating and im not!
If I were you I would be an open book for him and ask that he do the same for you in all regards, facebook, email, texts, all of it.
I wanted to comment here because I currently am not at all trusting my wife and can share my perspective from my vantage point. In my case, I haven't found any hard proof that my wife been unfaithful but she's given me many, many reasons to distrust her and just oo many of the classic affair red flags are there to think she's not having an affair. And my wife is starting to work out of town for extended periods of time where I cannot check on her to verify. In your case though, if you two can be completely transparent to each other in all your electronic communications and know where each other are at any given time without unexplained absenses, etc., then he should eventually start to trust. Don't hide anything from each other though. I think if you both do this, you will both form a closer bond and the temptations if there are any, will diminish.
I would also do some soul searching yourself. Think about how you both were when you first dated, and what the relationship was like. You were probably inseperable and an open book to each other. Try to go back to that time and look at what has changed since then. And be honest with yourself at what you do differently and how you've changed. I myself did this and realized where my faults were and changed my behvior to try to get the relationship back to where it was when things were good. I basically neglected my marriage and we grew apart. Often it takes two to destroy a marriage.
Good luck to you.