LostandNervous

I've posted a couple times on here but I don't know if I got the answers that really helped me any. To make a long story short, I'm recently married (less then 6-months) and have been feeling very strange. Before we got married I got these same feelings but never though much of them and went on with the wedding. It seems like every time I see a "hot" girl all I think about is wanted to get to know them (physically and emotionally, i won't lie) and thinking to myself that I wish I was single and could go and be with other girls. I am a 21 year old that is married so I understand I married young but I feel like I no longer even want to try to make our marriage keep going.

I keep getting the weird feeling of thinking about how good it'd be to be free from this **** and just let loose and do my own for awhile. To be a little more detail oriented, me and the wife are around each other almost every single day and I get my alone time by going for a run, and she never wants to go anywhere and actually sleeps (takes a long nap) after work then just remains on the couch the rest of the night. I have a lot going on right now with my mom which has an illness that my family is trying to cope with and assist her in the best way but i have to leave and go visit her and help her almost every day or every other day. My wife has been complaining to me that I'm always gone (which I am not, I leave for about 2-3 hours each occasion.) and saying that she feels lonely. It's starting to bother me to where I look forward to being gone each time then when she starts texting me things about being lonely I just get pissed and don't care.


I'm just not sure if this means that I truly have fallen out of love with her or what? We have sex about once every week and even with that, I'd rather masturbate then do it. I feel like I may not be that attracted to her either. Also, to be completely honest, I probably would cheat on her if the opportunity presented itself, and I'm not trying to be an ******* or sound inconsiderate but I'm being honest and I understand it's not right.

Bluemoon7

Why did you get married?

Chris Taylor

It sounds like you were not mature enough to get married (some people never are). You don't have a lot of time invested in the marriage so maybe you two should just split rather than string her along and have affairs.

workin'

Most mature partners would realize that attraction to others does not necessarily stop after the wedding, but you do not dwell on it, or act on it.