lilmrsdub

O.k here is my problem I don't know my husband female friends i just moved here. My first time meeting two of them was last night at his flag football game Ok I stayed on one side so my little girl can play with the kids; I decied to walk on the other side to see my husband play but he was standing up cause they had set a couple of them to the side well when i walked up I see my husband standing there and his emale friend sitting on the ground beside him and they was talking and laughing. I know he saw me wth my 3 kids standing he just trid to play it off so when the game was over they laughing and carrying-on and he put his arms arond his 2 female friends shoulder and they laughing and tha when he saw me standing and then he want to introduce us. I hate that I hate itwith a passion!!!! I felt disrespected. I saw the chemistry that they was having. My husband has always been a nice guy to feamles (POINT BLANK .) and he tell me thats why he have so many female friends cause he knows how to respect them. SO when we got in the car I ask him do he really think that it was appropriate for him to be hugging up on his female freinds like that? he says they like his peoples. I'm thinking how??? you just got here this year!!! you don't even know them like dat . They go clubbing he even goes to teir hose to chill and play cards they have been since i got here. He tells me that thats how he hugs females (he cool wit). I try to tell him how it bothers me period with him going over to their house going clubbing etc. but he still don't understand m and h feel like there is nothing wrong with that.

unbelievable

He's destined for failure. There's a sexual harassment charge in his future and he's not enough clever enough to pretend to be cautious. I don't put hands on my female soldiers on or off duty. I'd be insane to go to one's house without a witness and without an official reason to be there. He might be (cool wit) it, but the Army isn't (cool wit it). I'll put a military judge's definition of acceptable conduct against his definition of "cool" any day.